Pros To Dating An Older Guy
Most people around my age would say, "eww!!," to dating an older man. Not me, I've always been attracted to older guys. I've never seen myself being in a relationship with a man that is 15+ years older than me but hey, shit happens. Honestly, faith happens. I've always gotten questions asking for my advice on dating older men. But I've never said the pros to dating one!
When you date someone that is older, they are done playing games! Well, sometimes, can't speak for everyone. I always see posts about guys around my age always playing games. They just want to have fun and mingle. They are not ready to be tied down to a relationship. Whereas older men are actually ready to settle down and start a family. They also don't like to waste time, they don't beat around the bush. If they want you to just have sex with you then they will say it instead of doing the whole Netflix and chill situationship. So, if you're that female that is done going after a male that keeps dodging the relationship title then get you an older guy!
When you date guys around your age that means y'all are probably on the same level. Working part-time, going to school, and etc. When you date someone that is financially stable that means they are good with money. Meaning you have a least likely chance to run into money problems. They may also have a good credit score, whereas people around your age are just starting to build credit. This is where you can learn from your partner on how to handle money and build your credit score. Oh and let's not forget that your partner will be able to splurge on you and don't have to eat 2 for $20 at Applebee's every weekend. You can have that steak and lobster instead!
The older you get the more you learn, hence older people are more experienced. I have learned a lot from my boyfriend. Since he's a manager, I mainly learn about business and how to handle people from him. Which is great for me, because I want to be my own boss. He always asks me questions regarding business to test me and I always get them right. He has also traveled around the world so he has taught me a couple things about traveling and different cultures. Most older men are independent; got their own money, place, and etc. So being an adult is nothing new to them. Whereas younger guys still depend on their parents.
Sex Is Bomb
Older men are obviously more experienced in other areas as well. *wink wink* haha. If you're apart of my family, I would not read this section unless you want to imagine me butt naked getting nasty! Haha. Anyways, many young females think sex with older men sucks because they need to use viagra or something. That's not true, they might need it when they turn 70 and older. Sex with an older guy is very...how can I put it...kinky. They love to try new things because they have already done the whole make love in bed in the most basic position ever. So if you've never had sex with an older guy, get ready to do things you've never thought about doing or being done to you. ;)
They're More Attentive
This is my favorite thing about my boyfriend, he definitely takes note of the things that I like. He easily knows how to make me happy without always having to tell him what I want. Like coming home with my favorite snacks. They notice when we have done something new or different to ourselves. They know just what to say and what not to say. Older guys also know that no matter what, females are always right because if they say otherwise then it will start an argument that they can't win.
Obviously, all older guys aren't like this. You can still easily come across a childish, arrogant, forgetful man. I know you're also thinking what about growth with your partner? There can always be growth no matter the age difference. My boyfriend has never been married, owned a house, or had kids. He also learns from me just as much as I learn from him. So if you're a young lady that's thinking about dating an older guy, I say go for it. You never know he just might be the one you've been waiting for.
XO Adore Donnie